Make it Hot…
Here at Storm Maidstone Escorts we believe it is perfectly normal for couples to want to spice it up in the bedroom at some point in their relationship. This is because as humans we are used to routines and often stay within our comfort zone. We have all heard the saying ‘if it isn’t broke don’t fix it’ and we are all guilty of this at some point within our lifestyle. This leads to us wanting to spice it up and needing some form of change. At our Storm Escorts HQ we love helping our clients and readers out, so here are 3 ways you could spice up you sex life which could definitely help bring the spark back.
Having another person in the room could really help take your relations to the next level. This should be agreed by both parties to minimise the risk of jealousy during this time. Jealousy is one of the main factors why couples don’t experiment with this but often people find this brings them closer together when they get involved with another person. The person must be able to stimulate both parties for the experience to be a success as this will only heighten any sensations felt during these intimate moments
Having a safe word is important as this is an experience for both of you. If one person isn’t feeling comfortable then the word can be used which would allow positions to change or more attention on your partner. It is important throughout the whole process you are constantly checking in on your partner especially for first-timers as you need to make sure you are both enjoying the experience.
Roleplay could be a wonderful thing to bring into the bedroom and is a chance to make things more fun. There are stereotypical outfits people often go for such as a nurse, a police officer or fire fighter. These traditional outfits play on people’s desires to really get them going and is entertaining for both as one gets to dress up and the other gets to enjoy the show. Laughter in the bedroom shouldn’t be underestimated as this could really make the moments more cherished as you are having a good time during the whole process.
Some girls like to wear wigs. This can empower them as they can become a different person and could take on a new personal. This may make them more dominant as they take control and boss someone around which could be stimulating if this is not their normal persona. Some also could become more submissive and follow instructions more. Taking on this new look in one way or another helps to break the ice and would usually result in being more adventurous and if you are looking to spice things up that is exactly what you need. The wig could also help the man as it may make him feel like he is with a different female which could be thrilling in itself.
Toys shouldn’t be underestimated in how much it could help things in the bedroom. Feathers could be brought in to help stimulate as when rubbed across sensitive areas it could really enhance foreplay. Hand cuffs are another thing you could try as being partially restricted really gets some people going and makes the experience that bit better.
Vibrators are a great addition to the bedroom as this can help the female reach organ which isn’t always achievable through penetrative sex. There are different toys that comes with a remote control which means as the partner you are in control of what your girl is feeling. You can speed it up or slow it down and you will be able to pleasure her how you please. You could tease or turn it up until she climaxes. A good tip to ensure this happens is by maintaining a rhythmic rather. Female body’s like a rather of soft slow and fast and mixing it up really will enhance her experience during these moments.
These three methods are guaranteed to help spice up your love life as being adventure and trying new things is what we all need to do once in a while. So, give it a try and watch your life flourish as you get to enjoy intimate time together.